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counting down the days (again)

Every month feels like déjà vu, same routine, same countdown, same flutter in my chest as the date gets closer. I wait for the day I can finally pack my bag and board that flight to KK. Usually it’s just three days and two nights (short, too short!!). And once in a while, if life is kind, we get a full week together.   Rare , but worth every tick of the clock. The day I fly to KK always feels electric. I wake up lighter, faster, happier. The thought of seeing him again makes everything else fade into the background. Those days together feel like a reset, we talk, laugh, eat, and I unload all the stories I’ve been saving for weeks, the ones I always say,  “I’ll tell you when I see you,”  because some things just don’t belong in calls or texts. But then, as always, comes the night before I have to go back. That quiet, heavy moment no one talks about. The air feels different.  Slower, heavier  like time itself doesn’t want to move forward. I’ll look at ...

still searching, still growing ☁︎

  “I should be content. I’ve come so far. I have what I once prayed for… so why do I still feel like something’s missing?” It’s been two years since I graduated and started working full-time, and honestly, life has been alright. I like my job. I’m surrounded by good people. Everything is okay on the surface but there’s this constant, quiet feeling inside me like I’m always searching for something more . It’s not that I’m unhappy or ungrateful. In fact, I’ve checked off quite a few goals on my list. Things I used to wish for are now part of my daily reality. But strangely, it still doesn’t feel enough. I still find myself looking ahead, wondering what else is out there for me. What else I can build, learn, or experience. Maybe it’s just part of being in your 20s, this feeling that you should be doing more, becoming more.  One thing I’ve consciously practiced over the years is delayed gratification . It’s something I’ve grown into naturally. Instead of buying the latest thing ...

marriage: where love feels like home ‪‪❤︎‬

-soft spot by keshi- 00:41 ━━━━●───── 03:25 ⇆ㅤ ㅤ◁ㅤ ❚❚ ㅤ▷ ㅤㅤ↻ ᴠᴏʟᴜᴍᴇ : ▮▮▮▮▮▮ Before we got married, life felt like a rollercoaster. The wedding preparations took up so much of our time and energy that we barely had the space to slow down and just be with each other. Everything was hectic; appointments, planning, decisions, families. It was a beautiful kind of chaos, but still, I missed the simple, meaningful moments between us. We were too busy preparing for a future together that we didn’t have the chance to fully be in the present. But after the wedding, once the noise settled and we were finally husband and wife, something shifted. I started to truly see Ali, not just as my partner, but as this beautifully complex person I was still getting to know. He’s the kindest, most thoughtful man. A true gentleman, through and through. And then there’s this quirky, playful side of him that I’m convinced no one else has seen but me. It’s like I’ve been given this secret, special version of h...